How to keep girls around as an introvert

How to keep girls around as an introvert


Some men do not like to keep women around for long. They prefer the thrill of the hunt, the taste of new flesh. Not me. I am an introvert. I suspect that many of your guys reading this are the same.

Of course, there are nothing like new pussy, but i can not tolerate extended periods of active gaming.

I know enough to get good results, but it does not come easily for me. I have to pt in the work. My game trajectory resembles aroller coaster with peaks and valleys.

Sometimes i ramp up and score successive notches quickly. Other times i settle back and and lazily enjoy my harem. I will admit, i like the valleys better.

I prefer the pleasure of sex, to the excitement of gaming new women. I am not a greedy man. Once i have a minimum of two girls on call, i am good.

That is why I advocate for harem building. It is nice having a few girls around for regular sex and, sometimes companionship. That frees you to spend time on more productive pursuits, like weightlifting, empire building, and so on.

A soft harem is an efficient way for introverts multible females for sex, with minimal time and effort. Here are some tips to keep your harem girls in love with you, even after they leave.

1. Give her orgasms
In my experience, this is the only way she is going to share you for any length of time.  If you want her to return, make her orgasm hard and often.

2. Say no to monogamy
The foundation of harem game is the rejection of monogamy. It is all build on the premise if she does not want to share, she can leave. And that is it. Once she understands that you will never change, you can relax a bit.

3. Do not hesitate to let her go
Let her go with no drama if she decides to leave. Wish her luck and happiness with her new monogamous boyfriend. Try to score a goodbye fuck. Then show her the door.

4. Be disinterested, but accessible
Do not text, call or email her once she leaves. This should come easily for you. But respond if she raches out. She is just maing sure, that you are still an option for her, and you should quickly schedule a meet.

5. Be ruthless
She might come back to you, while she still has a boyfriend.Only have sex with her if she agree to leave him. Do not upset her if she returns to him a while after that. She will be back again.

6. Let her come back
Of course, it is best to be disinterested and ruthless. But she will eventually get into a fight with her weak boyfriend and come fishing for your attention. Then it is OK to tell her you miss her, let her know she can return whenever she wants to. Just keep that to a minimum.

7. Be easy on her
Do not give her a hard time when she comes back. She probably would want to talk about her recent breakup. If you can calmly tolerate your women leaving you for other men, then she will return repeatedly. Just make sure to use a condom, until she gets tested.

Extroverted men may bot see the point of keeping a harem. Meeting new women is a fun sport. But for introverts, it can be it can be physically draining and mentally exhausting.

Running a harem allows us to have sex with multible women while remaining tru to our introvert nature.


2 thoughts on “How to keep girls around as an introvert

  1. as to your point #1, give her orgasm; I say its more important to give her dramatic events. In this case sex acts she hasn’t done before work just fine, but so would any low level bdsm games, just keep pushing the demands in a calm and “certain it will be done” manner and encourage her when she tries yet fails to deliver

    I settled into soft harems for the efficiency of it as you mentioned, but now have a hard harem as my normal domestic life for reasons to numerous to get into but not the least of which was simply to see if I could pull it off. again


    1. I agree 100 percent on your view of point 1.

      Give her memorable sex is crucial, whether it is light bdsm, public sex or giving her mltible orgasms. Be dominant and creative – be in control..


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